Hey it’s Idris from Retentiononly.

Most ecom founders treat abandoned cart and abandoned checkout as the same thing. They're not — and that confusion is costing you revenue.

Today I'm breaking down the exact framework we use to build high-converting recovery flows: the settings, the emails and the SMS layer.

If you prefer video, watch the full breakdown here: https://youtu.be/LapwNJ7Bhyw

Cart vs. Checkout — Why It Matters

Abandoned Cart = someone adds to cart but never starts checkout. 

Abandoned Checkout = someone starts checkout but doesn't complete the purchase.

The checkout audience has higher buying intent. Treat them differently:

  • Cart emails link back to the cart. Checkout emails link to the checkout.

  • Abandoned checkout can also capture new visitors who entered their email at checkout, expanding your recoverable audience, while the abandoned cart flow only captures current subscribers and customers.

The 3-Email Framework

Both flows use the same timing: 20 min → 1 day → 1 day.

Email 1 — Reminder + Social Proof. Remind them what they left behind. Add 2–3 authentic reviews that mention the results your customers actually care about. CTA above the fold.

Here is a great example from Dr. Squatch

Email 2 — Urgency + Risk Reversal.

Shift the angle. Lead with benefits, then hit risk reversal hard: "You get the result, or you get your money back." CTA above the fold.

Here is a great example

Email 3 — 10% Discount + Social Proof. Your closer. Emails 1 and 2 already converted the high-intent buyers at full price. The 10% captures fence-sitters who'd otherwise be lost. That's net-new revenue.

Here is a great email from Obvi

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In every email: CTA above the fold. Social proof with real reviews. Risk reversal mentioned prominently, not buried in fine print. Address the top objections directly.

Add a Separate SMS Layer

Keep SMS flows separate from email flows so you can track and optimize each channel independently.

Send each SMS 4 hours after the corresponding email. Email is free — let it do the heavy lifting first.

  • SMS 1: Reminder + risk reversal (money-back guarantee)

  • SMS 2: Urgency + social proof ("Join 550K+ happy customers")

  • SMS 3: 10% off with an auto-apply link (people can't copy individual words from SMS, make it one click)

Three rules: no emojis, no images (converts to MMS at 3x the cost), and never just state the discount code, always auto-apply it via the link.

Flow Settings (Don't Skip This)

  • Re-entry: 7 days

  • Filter out anyone who placed an order since starting the flow

  • Filter out emails that bounced 3+ times in the last 180 days (protects your deliverability)

That's the framework. No complicated logic, no aggressive discounting upfront, just the right message at the right time + marketing psychology.

If your store has traffic, this is one of the fastest wins you can implement this week.

Full video breakdown: https://youtu.be/LapwNJ7Bhyw

Talk soon.

Cheers,

Idris

P.S.
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